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If you are a shy guy by nature then you probably don't think that any woman would be interested in you. What you probably don't know, though is that there are absolutely loads of women out there who totally adore shy guys. Lots of women are sick fed up with today's macho obsessed, arrogant, conceited and often downright foul males, and they are looking for something else. Believe me when I say that the majority of single women are actually looking for a shy guy just like you. They know that you will respect them, wont be overbearing and gererally you will be easier to get along with. So dont be afraid, let me give you some advice on dating for shy guys, and you can turn your fears around.
The biggest fear for most shy men is, naturally enough, rejection. This can make you reluctant to approach women and ask them out. What i will tell you now are some golden tips that can help you make the first move, and then help you keep going into a full blown relationship.
My mother always used to say.."If you don't ask..you don't get", and that's the nub of the problem with dating for shy guys. Its hard to approach a woman, but if you don't approach her then you can pretty much forget any kind of relationship. You would be astounded at how many women, even in today's equal society, like, or even expect, the guy to make the first move. Even if the woman in question is ready to make the first move, the problem you face is that your not really giving off the signals to her to make her think that you are interested. Its a classic impasse. so, my number one tip in dating for shy guys is to be confident, not arrogant, as most women find this highly attractive.
Ok, so you've made the first move, what next? Well, most shy men find it difficult to find the right words to say. Dont worry about being some silver tongued cavalier, most women actually find it off putting and downright corny when a guy delivers some staged pick-up line to them. I've always found that the most effective way to get a conversation going is to ask the lady a question about herself. Believe me, most women (and a lot of guys) love to talk about themselves, and that brings us nicely to my third tip - being a good listener.
Now this tip is absolutely golden, be a good listener. Women love a guy who is a good listener as it shows they are attentive and caring. It also helps you to get to know them better and leads on to more topics of conversation. See how easy this all is?
Another great tip in my dating for shy guys repertoire is to think ahead and choose a suitable meeting place. Of course, some times you just meet in a moment,well seize that opportunity and go with the flow, but if you have the chance to arrange a meeting, then take care. Make sure its a place where you both feel comfortable. I would always avoid nightclubs as its impossible to have a good conversation, and sports event which can be highly charged. Choose a gentle activity like boating, its great fun if the weathers nice, or even mini-golf! The important thing is to remove as much pressure from the situation so that both you and your new found love can feel at ease.
My final tip in my dating for shy guys list is a simple one. Have fun. Yes, if you are both enjoying yourself the atmosphere will lighten and she will be more attracted to you. Now that's a recipe for success in my book.
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