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As I write this article, many guys are nervously plotting and planning their wedding proposal, in hopes that their little engagement secret will not be discovered. Try as you might to act normal, you're daily life is anything BUT normal. Thoughts of "this is the last woman I will ever be with for the rest of my life" and "what if she turns out exactly like her mother in 30 years" are constantly going through your mind. You know that she is the woman for you, but your natural doubting mind is constantly asking the what-if questions. As someone who has been joyfully married for 13 years, I have some sage advice for you as you plan your wedding proposal.
Let's start with some very important advice. Remember, no matter how special you think this is to you, multiply that times 10 and you might have some idea how special it is for your bride-to-be. Women dream about getting married since they are little girls and they dream of becoming the fairy tale princess who gets whisked away by the handsome young prince. Although you may not think so, YOU are the handsome young prince who is coming to whisk her away into true love.Â
Listen clearly. Don't just place the ring in your pocket and wait for the opportune time to pull it out and fumble over the words to ask her to marry you. Take some quality time alone and plan it out in detail. Getting engaged is more than just going out to eat then blurting out "Will you marry me?" in the middle of the restaurant. Your wife-to-be wants this to be one of the most special nights of her life, and what makes it special is the amount of detail you attend to this night.
Let me give you some examples or ideas on what I mean by the 'details'. Most likely, if you've spent enough time with your girlfriend to propose, you know what kind of music she likes. Create a music playlist with some of her favorite songs and stash a CD and portable music player in your car. Choose a romantic and private spot in advance where you are going to pop the question and pull out the music when you get there and ask her to dance. Enjoy the moment dancing, and don't be too haste to pull out the ring. You will know when the time is right and she will have appreciated the extra effort you made to make the moment special. She will also have a keepsake CD of the music you shared on the night of your engagement.
Another example of planning the 'details' is with the flowers for example. Many men do not realize that when they get engaged, flowers MUST be a part of the mix. But instead of just having flowers delivered to the office or bringing a bouquet with you when you pick her up, plan a flower give-away for the evening. Let me explain. Plan in advance to have 11 different people hand your girlfriend a rose throughout the evening. Such as, meeting your girlfriend at a quaint spot for a drink after work, and you get there 30 minutes early and tell the Valet, Hostess, Waiter, etc. to hand her a rose sometime while the two of you are there. They don't have to say a thing, just hand her a rose. Plan all of the places where she will get a rose that night in advance and then when you are ready to propose, hand her the twelve rose that you have hidden somewhere and move forward with your proposal. She will absolutely appreciate you forever as you went the extra mile to make this time special for her.
Planning the words for your actual wedding proposal is also an important thing to do. Your woman wants to hear the reasons why you are asking her to marry her, not just the words 'will you marry me'. Take some time and think about why you love her so much and then tell her that before you actually ask her to marry you. This is your one chance to let her know that you love her enough to put all other women behind her and to spend the rest of your life together as one. Your engagement is actually the beginning of your commitment to one another, so starting it off in spectacular fashion will help start your marriage off in spectacular fashion as well.
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